when you can’t stop thinking about someone

when you can't stop thinking about someone

when you can’t stop thinking about someone

You will be sitting calmly and suddenly you’ll remember that person.  You will be watching a movie but you keep thinking about the same person.  Even when you go to bed, all of a sudden you’ll remember the same person again.  So why is this happening to you? What does it mean when you can’t stop thinking about someone?  

Are you emotionally attached to them? Or is this just your over thinking?  Finally, how to stop thinking about someone? Today in this video, I’ll tell you everything about why you sometimes keep thinking about a particular person continuously. 

 I’ll also reveal to you what it exactly means if when you can’t stop thinking about someone. Firstly remember one thing. If you are thinking about someone continuously, it can’t be simply ignored. Some people simply believe that our thoughts can be completely random and thus doesn’t have any specific meanings. Thinking so, they ignore these thoughts just to end up thinking more and more about the same person. No, this is not the right way.

In reality, each and every thought that comes into your mind has a particular reason and meaning. So if you can identify the perfect reason for your constant thinking, you can thus take a proper action against it.  So, if you understand the real reason why you are unable to stop thinking about someone, then you can easily figure out how to stop these constant thoughts.

In general, when you can’t stop thinking about someone, in most cases it is only because of one of the 5 major reasons.  So let’s see each one of them one by one.

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when you can’t stop thinking about someone 5 reasons major

when you can't stop thinking about someone

when you can’t stop thinking about someone -1. When you love the person and is attracted to them strongly. This is one of the most common reasons why you can’t stop thinking about someone.  In general when we expect something positive we tend to think more and more about it.  So when you love someone, an insane amount of positive expectancy starts in your mind. You keep expecting a lot of positive things like love, the relationship, the romance, and many more.  Thus if you love someone and have strong feelings for them, you will tend to think about them repeatedly as a result of positive chemicals in your body because of them. 

when you can’t stop thinking about someone -2. When you have Urging guilt. If you cross your limits of morals and ethics, you constantly tend to feel guilty. So for example, if you dumped someone, or did wrong to someone, you might automatically think about that person continuously.  This is because you feel guilty for crossing your morals with that person.  Most people tend to get confused, thinking guilt as love and start believing that they love that particular person. However the real reason is that the people is just feeling guilty and just want to make something good for the one who he/she has dumped or lied to.

when you can’t stop thinking about someone -3. When you had a romantic encounter with the person. Romance is one of the most thrilling things that happen in one’s life. Such situations don’t come often but when they happen they leave a lasting strong impression in your mind. Here you need to remember that romance can be anything starting from a sweet text to a deep kiss. So when such a romantic situation happened with a particular person, there are chances that you might think about him/her more often.

when you can’t stop thinking about someone 4. If it is your ex. love is a very strong emotion that can affect any person. Generally if you are in a relationship, you will start enjoying the happy emotions that love brings to your life.  You keep spending your time with your loved ones, thus continuously piling-up loads of sweet memories. But once you had a breakup with such a loved one, these piled-up sweet memories in turn make it very hard to forget someone. 

Thus when it comes to your ex, it is generally obvious that you would keep thinking about him/her constantly even after the breakup.  This is mainly because we still have the hope that our ex might return one day. Thus with such a crazy level of hope, we unknowingly can’t stop thinking about that person throughout the day. 

when you can’t stop thinking about someone -5. Your confusion about a particular person.  Confusion is one thing that can keep you thinking about something or someone again and again.  As our brains can’t tolerate any missing pieces of an unsolved puzzle, we constantly feel the urge to solve all the unresolved doubts that run in our heads.

This is the reason we get glued to watching thriller movies until the end as the unsolved doubts in the movie keeps your brain hooked.  Thus if you are confused with a person’s behavior like, “Does the person like talking to me?”  “Does the person love spending time with me?” or “Does the person hate me?” etc. in such a case you tend to keep thinking about that person all day.

This is just because you are confused about his/her feelings for you and this now became a missing puzzle in your brain. So the next time you wonder why you can’t stop thinking about someone, then just remember that either you have feelings for the person or you had a romantic situation with the person or you have a pang of strong urging guilt towards them, or you are simply confused regarding that person.

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